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Today I thought we could chat about dating your spouse.
You’ve heard people say to “date your husband” before, right?
When we would go on dates earlier in our relationship, we always dressed up for each other and of course over the years there is a little less effort when you see each other every day vs. Just the act of getting ready and knowing it was done for each other (not for a wedding, girls night, church, etc.). Sometimes this involves traveling somewhere new that we’ve never been.
It just shows that little bit of extra time and thought, wanting to look our best for each other. what’s better than walking around before or after dinner holding hands? Something so simple, yet can evoke those early warm and fuzzies. Other times it’s making a list of things we want to do – ice skate together, take a cooking class, see an outdoor movie, go to a concert.
Christian one time told me that the best part of a vacation was looking forward to the trip beforehand.
I had never really thought of it like that, but I completely understood what he was talking about. It might even just be cooking dinner at home and eating outside on the patio under bistro lights with candles and music while the kids are asleep.
The Young and the Restless fans should note that there is no official word from Y&R of any marriage taking place in New Orleans on the recent Thanksgiving trip sponsored by Billy Abbott.
The narrative of what took place in NOLA is as follows: after one thing leads to another, Phyllis and Billy along with Nick and Chelsea find themselves married after one too many drinks in the Big Easy.
I tend to compliment C on the same things, and he knows some of the things I love most about him… Whether it’s on appearance or personality, a little reminder is nice to hear.
During the new Y&R November 27 episode, Billy and Phyllis run into Chelsea and Nick at the GCAC bar.
Billy orders drinks for everyone of course and it doesn’t take long for Phyllis to call Chelsea and Nick their “partners in crime” only for Billy to add, “and their partners in…” before he tapers off.
Dating is, perhaps, the only activity you get a reputation for being good at by being bad at it.
(Paradoxically, someone who was great at dating would not need to go on many first dates.) Fortunately for the rest of us, a new generation of Internet entrepreneurs has arisen to make finding love – or at least, finding someone to make out with – as easy as firing off a Snapchat.